Draining off our I.Q.

First off all. Who says that love is great and love is amazing? Alright, maybe the love given by our family is great and amazing, but love between 2 sexes? That’s just plain stupid.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m happily attached and I do very much believe in love, but why all the romantic and mushy mushy stuffs? Not to mention jealousy and even heart breaks. If there is an insurance that could protect us from love harm, please do sign me up.

I’ve been in and out of a relationship for quite some time now, and it hurts to say that I haven’t found someone that could make me settle down and to make me want to spend the rest of my life with him. With many years of “experience” that I’ve collected, symptoms of you going through a heart break is as below:

• Sleepless nights
• Lost of appetite / sudden gain of appetite
• Feel ridiculously emotional when you see something related to him/her
• Jealousy with you see him/her with the opposite sex
• Ultimately sensitive towards his/her name
• Non-stop flowing of tears every time you think of him/her

Any of you going through these situations? Please take my advice and go to the nearest doctor.

In short, there is no guarantee in a relationship, it is either you give it all out or you wait for the other party to do all the work. For me, I would prefer to give it all out, do anything for him and even sometimes being called stupid for trusting a guy that much. In my defense, how are you going to get the most out of a relationship when you don’t trust your partner? We always say that love is build and sustained by trust, then why are you guys telling me that I’m stupid for trusting my own man?

I’m a little silly when it comes to love. Hopeless romantic I assume? But trust me when I say that I’m not a fan of cliché things. Flowers, candle light dinners, mushy stuffs etc. Well, maybe a little of those doesn’t hurt? I am totally on my knees when I see a 6feet tall guys with a well toned body, I will go all goo-goo ga-ga for him. You may say that I’m shallow since I pay so much attention on looks, but what is a fantasy without a little bit of dream?

As conclusion, are you feeling stupid? Do you think that love is stupid? If you do, that’s perfectly alright because everyone else in the world is being stupid with you, so you are not alone. Be stupid, be free, do things that you never think that you will do. You might be surprise with the outcome. Give all in and never look back.

Signing off with heaps of love.